A lifetime experience

One beautiful morning, the sun woke up from its hiding place; it beamed its sharp, hot rays onto the ground. It brightened up the new day making it warmly glow. You jumped out of bed like a cricket, prepared yourself diligently; it was that day you would set your eyes on him for the first time. You met months ago online and you had been chatting for days and weeks.

Your heart was pure happy, your face glowed with delight, you looked shinny and amazingly beautiful. There he came with his bold look, astoundingly handsome, cute smile and most of all he had jovial moods. You had waited for this day for long and now it had finally come; you met the real Mr. you were tense at first but after a while of talking, tension disappeared and things got better. The day went on so well, you clicked, he made you laugh, admired your loveliness and smile and told you how incredibly gorgeous you looked. Your heart did melt with joy and you were happy to have physically met.

The first date went blissfully well, your heart was warmly cheerful; he was the man you had been waiting to meet and yeah you finally did. Things were awesome for some time and dates were remarkable. After days of knowing each other better, you introduced him to your best friend and let him know where you stayed; shockingly he never did the same. For you, you liked him and feelings were developing slowly, but to him maybe he had no clue or had his own agendas; he still weighed options. Due to the uncomfortable feeling within you; you felt deep inside something was not right.

The jovial good guy you enjoyed his company was no more. He was secretive, he did not show you where he stayed, you had no clue about his friends and he decided to pretend to be in love with you. Those were signs of something not right. He did not want anybody to know he had someone else and so he decided to keep you a secret. Questions entangled itself in your mind; you had no clue what to do or how to deal with the situation. 

Relationships are built with friendship first, getting to know him better and deeply, know his friends, where he stays, what he loves doing and build that trust. Remember, if a woman catches a man’s’ eyes, she earns his purse; if he captures his heart she earns his world. Do not underestimate the power of love, it grows slowly, if not careful you will sink in. Before you know it, things will get tense, you will be annoyed every minute you think about him, he will make you sick and you will never want to set your eyes on him again.

A man is like a chameleon today he is blue, tomorrow he is red. As much as he may want something from you he will do whatever he can to get it. They can pretend day and night as long as they accomplish their goal in you. If his goal is to earn your heart he will work hard day in day out to get it, if his goal is to get into your pants he will put all effort and energy to it. Men were given the gift of hunting it is there job to do so. Be very careful!

Young lady, young man, do not rush into falling in love with someone; do not rush into starting a relationship with someone you have not taken time to know better. If something was meant to be, it will be. Take your sweet time, invest in building the friendship, which would bring in trust and finally glows love in you. If a man is serious with you, he would not be afraid to tell the whole world how much you mean to him, he has chose you and he is ready to be with you through thick and thin.

Bob Marley once said, “The truth is everyone is going to hurt you. You just have to find the ones worth suffering for.” God tells us in his word, guard your heart with all your strength because that is the spring of life. Never allow anybody to break your heart as you watch a friend once told me that.